who told who about who?

i forgot if i wrote about how erin always used to ask if jem and i met up in new york.. it seems like i should've wrote SOMETHING about it because i went to new york so long ago but i don't know.. i forget shit all the time and i was thinking about it while walking this evening. i was trying to remember if i told her about jem or if she found out about him from my grandma or if amanda (i told amanda about him and i'm not sure if my grandma did also before she died) told her about him.. hm.. i don't know.. i was thinking about that while walking this evening.